Writer details how Arnold and Maria (to their dismay) were permitted “all the desires of their hearts”.

Maria and Arnie both betrayed Christ and the Church as cafeteria Catholics by picking and choosing the doctrines they would follow and those they would reject. Arnie just took the betrayal a step farther by being a cafeteria husband who played fast and loose with the vows he made to Maria on their wedding day. But if you don’t respect your obligations to Christ and His Church, why would you respect your obligations to another person?

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