This Week’s Ask Alice: More questions about the Blessed Virgin Mary



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Denise writes: We are doing the study of Rediscover Catholicism, by Mathew Kelly. We are discussing evangelizing. My question is, how do you explain praying to Mary, based on the Bible? My sister says we pray to her as an inter mediator to Jesus, as we would pray with a friend. My question to her was, I would not sit you down put candles in front of you, get on my knees, and pray to you. That is a sin. I can not get an answer as to who appeared to whom and on what date in history did this happen to tell us it was OK to pray to any one or thing other than the Trinity. Most of the people we mentor to are former Catholics who can not get an answer to these questions from any one. I can not seem to get an answer. Please answer this for me. (Question edited for length and editorial content.)

Alice answers: Our son, Matthew, owns an auto shop. He is an excellent, honest mechanic. My kind-hearted son often fixes cars for people in need and accepts whatever they can pay. Always, he’ll stop along the highway to assist a stranger with car trouble. With his charitable attitude, Matt is not a rich man. However, Matthew never has spent money advertising his services in the newspaper. His business has spread entirely by word of mouth.

Matthew began carrying screw drivers and wrenches to Our Lady of Peace to repair classroom desks for Mrs. Didio, his 3rd grade teacher. By age 12, strangers were knocking at our front door asking for the boy who repairs lawnmowers. As Matthew’s mom, people often approach me seeking car care from my beloved son. Frequently our phone rings as strangers request the number to Matt’s auto shop. Last week a lady ran up to me at church and exclaimed, “You have the most wonderful son! He fixes our cars all the time.” She told me that Marge, a parishioner, sent her to Matthew.

When the wine ran out during the wedding feast at Cana, waiters approached Mother Mary, who led them to her beloved Son, Jesus. If people come to me seeking Matthew, what better way is there to contact Jesus then through His and our own Dearest Mother Mary?

Have you ever brought your mother roses to honor her on YOUR birthday for giving you the gift of life? Did you ever light a scented candle when she came to visit you? Mary is our mother in faith. Like our earthly mothers, we love and honor our Heavenly Mother as well. As Catholics we believe that Mary intercedes (prays, implores, and pleads) to Jesus for us.

Our Scriptural basis for praying to Mary is found in (Luke 1:46-49):

“My soul magnifies the Lord and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior. For He has looked upon His handmaid’s lowliness; behold, henceforth all generations shall call me blessed.”

Mary magnifies, i.e., enlarges, increases, and clarifies the greatness of the Lord. When we pray to Mary, she points upward and leads us to her son, Jesus.

In Christ’s Love,

Alice

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Doug Lawrence adds: For a short but detailed overview of the how’s and why’s of Catholic Marian beliefs and practices, I suggest you read pages 107 to 117 of my on-line book, The Passion Behind the Passion. Click here to go there

If you click here you will also find a short, illustrated slide show that further explains these things.

The “bottom line” about the Blessed Virgin Mary is her “divine election” as the sinless Mother of God, the holy “Ark” who bore Jesus in her womb … the “New Eve” … who voluntarily gave her entire body and soul to God, with absolutely no reservations … for the purpose of our salvation, in Jesus Christ.

Because Mary was uniquely conceived “full of grace” according to God’s own plan, only Mary was suitable to be the Mother of God.

If that single fact is not enough to merit our respect and reverence for her, than we look further into Jewish tradition and find that the mother of the king of Israel was always tasked with being a special advocate for the people.

Unlike most other cultures, in Israel, the mother of the king is the queen. And since the traditions of the nation of Israel, under kings David and Solomon were intended to be precursors of future things, we find the angel Gabriel (in Luke 1:28) explaining all of this to Mary.

According to the Bible, Mary is/will be:

Hailed by an angel:

Has an angel …ever … before or since … ever “hailed” (greeted with praise and honor) anyone other than God himself?

Full of grace:

No one since Adam was created or conceived in a state of perfect grace.

Adam foolishly squandered his grace, falling into sin and death, through Satan’s whiles.

Mary never failed. Never sinned. She always remained holy and acceptable to God, dedicated solely and eternally to him. Her perpetual virginity is one sign of that dedication.

Mary’s awesome, God given combination of perfect humility and perfect holiness made Satan absolutely powerless against her.

Blessed among women:

Mary was singled out by God to be the Mother of Jesus Christ, to be the Queen of Heaven, and to be superior to all of God’s other creation … according to God’s supernatural grace and plan.

Because of her “election” (by God himself) and her voluntary cooperation, Mary has already been supernaturally perfected in all things. (Since she carried God in her womb for nine months and lived in the same house with him for thirty years, why should that be a surprise to anyone?)

As the mother of Jesus, who is King of Kings and Lord of Lords, Mary was destined to be seated at the right hand of her divine Son, interceding for us … not as a normal human being … but as the triumphant, sinless, supernaturally perfected, awesomely powerful advocate that she now is … courtesy of her divine son, who loves us.

Because of this, Mary already presently enjoys all that we Christians can possibly hope for in Christ. Hence, she is the ONLY non-divine, supernaturally perfect human role model for every faithful Christian, according to God’s grace.

And the Lord God shall give unto him the throne of David his father: and he shall reign in the house of Jacob for ever. And of his kingdom there shall be no end:

All of these things are permanent, eternal, and preordained by God from before the foundations of the world.

Mary is firmly in the “middle” of God’s plan for our salvation … providing her own flesh and blood in order to make Jesus’ human body … from whom our salvation comes.

Mary is at once, Jesus’ first, best, and most constant disciple. One who closely cooperates with God in all these ways truly merits the term “co-redemptrix”.

The Holy Ghost shall come upon thee and the power of the Most High shall overshadow thee:

The Spirit of God hovered above the holy Ark of old, and no one dared touch it, upon pain of death. Inside the Ark were the tablets of the Law, which unfortunately, were never able to save a single soul! Mary uniquely cooperated with God’s plan in order to bring Christ into the world. Doing so, she became the Ark of the New Covenant.

Jesus Christ, God in the flesh, true God and true man, dwelled within the Blessed Virgin Mary’s holy womb, sanctifying her by his awesome presence and his grace. Those who touched her received him. And those who received Jesus received eternal life.

Which Ark then, is holier? Which is more critical to God’s plan for our salvation? Which Ark held within it the promise of divine redemption, the forgiveness of sins, and eternal life?

Behold the handmaid of the Lord: be it done to me according to thy word:

Mary’s “fiat” (yes) still resounds throughout human history. Never before or since did God ever wait for someone to say “yes” so he could save the world from their sins.

“Everything” was “riding” on the personal decision of that young Jewish maiden, who always did precisely what God had created her to do, without fail.

Luke 2:6-11  And it came to pass that when they were there, her days were accomplished that she should be delivered.  And she brought forth her first born son and wrapped him up in swaddling clothes and laid him in a manger: because there was no room for them in the inn. And there were in the same country shepherds watching and keeping the night watches over their flock.  And behold an angel of the Lord stood by them and the brightness of God shone round about them: and they feared with a great fear. And the angel said to them: Fear not; for, behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy that shall be to all the people: For, this day is born to you a Savior, who is Christ the Lord, in the city of David.

Can anyone else, from any generation … past, present, or future … honestly claim to have done the same?

The scriptures also provide other insights into the role of the Blessed Virgin Mary:

Faithful disciple of Jesus Christ:

John 2:5  His mother saith to the waiters: Whatsoever he (Jesus) shall say to you, do ye.

John 19:25  Now there stood by the cross of Jesus, his mother and his mother’s sister, Mary of Cleophas, and Mary Magdalen.

Acts 2:1-3  And when the days of the Pentecost were accomplished, they were all together in one place: And suddenly there came a sound from heaven, as of a mighty wind coming: and it filled the whole house where they were sitting. And there appeared to them parted tongues, as it were of fire: and it sat upon every one of them.

Mary Assumed into Heaven by the power of God:

(Revelation 11:19)  And the Temple of God was opened in Heaven: and the Ark of his Testament was seen in his Temple. And there were lightnings and voices and an earthquake and great hail.

Crowned as Queen of Heaven:

(Revelation 12:1)  And a great sign appeared in Heaven: A woman clothed with the sun, and the moon under her feet, and on her head a crown of twelve stars.

Mother of God. Mother of the Church:

(Revelation 12:2-5)  And being with child, she cried travailing in birth: and was in pain to be delivered.  And there was seen another sign in heaven. And behold a great red dragon, having seven heads and ten horns and on his heads seven diadems. And his tail drew the third part of the stars of heaven and cast them to the earth. And the dragon stood before the woman who was ready to be delivered: that, when she should be delivered, he might devour her son. And she brought forth a man child, who was to rule all nations with an iron rod. And her son was taken up to God and to his throne.

Of all these things, Saint Luke explains:

Luke 1:1-4 Forasmuch as many have taken in hand to set forth in order a narration of the things that have been accomplished among us, According as they have delivered them unto us, who from the beginning were eyewitnesses and ministers of the word:

It seemed good to me also, having diligently attained to all things from the beginning, to write to thee in order, most excellent Theophilus, That thou mayest know the verity of those words in which thou hast been instructed.

In short, St. Luke gives personal testimony to the truth of all that he recorded in his Gospel. And while the Holy Spirit is rightly credited with inspiring all of the sacred scriptures, we can be sure that the Blessed Virgin Mary described the blessed events of the Annunciation, Christmas, and all the others … to him … for the Blessed Virgin Mary was most certainly the primary eye-witness to every major New Testament event … even more so than the apostles. The Bible confirms this.

The more a person studies these things (and prays on them) the more a person comes to understand the mind of the church, the mind of God, and the unique and awesome role that God envisioned for the Blessed Virgin Mary (and for us all).

And since Jesus Christ, who is God, rightly honors his mother in ways that mere mortals can only imagine… who are we to do any less? (Always remembering that worship is reserved to God, alone.)

For much more on this, I suggest you study the extensive material to be found at this site. (click here)

I hope this helps. Please write again.

God bless you,

Doug

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Eleven minutes with Mary and the Sacred Scriptures


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