Forming Hearts in the Peace of Christ
at Our Lady of Peace Catholic Church
in Darien, Illinois
Dear “Ex”,
There’s no such thing as an “ex” Catholic.
When you were baptized, all your sins were forgiven, you became an adopted child of God, a living temple of the Holy Spirit, a citizen of Heaven, co-heir with Jesus Christ, and a member of the church. Your immortal soul received a special, indelible mark, identifying you as one of God’s very own.
None of this was merely temporary, or subject to revocation. It was accomplished for the purpose of your eternal salvation and for the glory of God. And it was good.
Yet, many of today’s Catholics – deeply disappointed by actual and/or perceived failures in church leadership – are subsequently abandoning the church – with no intention of ever coming back.
The corruption and hypocrisy of some who lead the church is indeed, shameful and scandalous, yet such things should no more keep you from remaining authentically Catholic than corrupt politicians and congressmen should keep you from remaining authentically American.
The most important thing at stake is the eternal salvation of your own personal soul, and for that (absent a great miracle) you need to fully and faithfully participate in all of the work, worship, sacraments and devotions of the Catholic Church – the only church that Jesus Christ ever personally founded – corruption, scandals and all!
Even Jesus had his Judas!
If you’re old enough and intelligent enough to “surf the web”, then you’re probably capable of “sorting out” adult questions of faith, without merely throwing up your hands and walking away. The main purpose of this site is to help with those types of issues. Additional resources, in-kind or in-person, can always be found at your local, Catholic parish.
In any case, God loves you and God will provide; but things begin to look much, much better when you take the time to discern your proper place in the whole scheme of things, stand up and accept God’s honest truth and once again, begin to aspire to the high purpose, for which you were created. Of course, none of that really matters if you remain voluntarily estranged and/or separated from Christ and his church, through sin.
Personal experience leads me to suspect that the problem(s) you have with the Catholic church may actually be rooted in some seemingly intractable, personal, moral issue – not something that is specific to any of the current, public, church scandals. If that’s true, then you’re in denial and the only real barrier to effective and total reconciliation with God, is pride.
To obtain a fresh start, it’s typically left up to us mortals to sincerely and contritely apologize to God, confess all our (known) sins, have a firm purpose of authentically repenting/turning away from those sins and ask God to mercifully, forgive us.
Catholics fully accomplish this task by making a good, sacramental confession, as often as might be necessary. Any Catholic priest will be more than happy to “walk you through” the process with grace, sensitivity, compassion and understanding, no matter how long it’s been, or how serious the sins. You can even call ahead, to make an appointment.
There’s no charge. There’s no judgment. Everything is absolutely private and confidential – even, anonymous – conducted through an opaque screen – if you prefer.
After confessing, you’ll be assigned a “token” penance and be officially absolved of all your sins. Then, you will depart, spiritually renewed and mentally refreshed.
God is good. His Catholic Church may be troubled, but it is still quite capable of saving souls and ministering to all the needs of the faithful. Jesus Christ specifically set things up that way, just for you. His marvelous grace is always sufficient.
Why not give it one more try?
If today you hear God’s voice, harden not your heart. (Psalms 95:8) (Hebrews 4:7)
Love,
Doug Lawrence
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April 2, 2024
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